dick-richardson
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Registered: Oct 2000
Location: Aberdeen, SD
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quote: What I was suggesting was that not everyone here is from the United States of America, even if that is their current country of residence. Of course, we could also get into the idea that there really isn't an American culture per se. My own native culture dovetails quite well into most of the traditional ideas of "American" culture (life, liberty, pursuit of happiness, self-rule, etc.), but its genesis was quite organically separate (especially considering that we were living in this part of the country before the U.S. even existed).
Mine as well (a part anyway). American culture takes that into consideration. Take my family, for example. Our culture is a conglomerate of Scottish, Irish, English, French, and Cherokee (in no particular order), yet we honor them all even though some may seem contradictory. Contradictory cultures in America don't invalidate American culture. Just make it interesting. And I never meant to imply that VisorCentral's culture was American. VisorCentral has a culture all to itself.
quote: Don't forget the Canadians and our compadres south of the border.
Isn't Canada part of America? (Just a joke to our Canadian friends - I've heard that rankles .) I believe VisorCentral is host to a handful of Europeans as well.
quote: Not everyone has to post to make it universal.
quote: No, but its universality cannot be proven otherwise.
I was pointing out that a lack of posts doesn't preclude universality, a premise that has governed American voting since the get-go (unfortunately).
quote: Languages that you do not know are basically that. Were they universal, you'd understand what was being said.
I was speaking universal for a given culture, and language is part of culture. We're finding out how great a part language plays in culture in the Southwest with a high population of Americans who speak only Spanish. And even at that there are sounds/gestures/etc. that are universal regardless of language (laughter, music - more or less, etc.).
quote: Even animals have universal differences between sounds. A dog that is growling is definitely expressing something that is universally understood by other dogs.
quote: Perhaps, but not necessarily universally understood by all humans.
Humans aren't part of "dog culture".
quote: Interesting to note that temperment can get in the way of clarity of communication.
quote: Of course it can, and from both the transmitter and the receiver's perspective.
And being that discussion boards strip everything but what's written means that temperment plays an even larger role. Without body language to clarify we're left with our own temperment to try to dicipher what's meant. That means being a little more careful with what we post.
quote: Well then.
quote: I intended no offense with that statement.
None taken. I try to respond to every point you make (either agreeing, disagreeing, or clarifying) and I had none for this. It does well pointing out how temperment interferes with communication, though. In fact I rather enjoy arguing when it is done well. You argue well, and resorting to personal attacks is counterproductive.
quote: Let me identify the child as older than 7. The senerio I identified still occurs.
quote: Perhaps, but I'm still dubious as to whether the motivations are as you say.
My point was not about children trying to keep pets, but rather that connotation is used often as a method of communication. "Bunny" evokes a different response than "rabbit"; "doggie" vs. "dog"; ad nauseam.
quote: A warning requires agreement that there is a problem.
quote: How so? A warning only suggest that the "warner" thinks there is a problem.
Not by the perceiver. I'll explain in my next response.
quote: If I were to warn you that little green men being led by Elvis were planning to conquer the world you would most likely dismiss the warning. You wouldn't agree that there was a problem.
quote: I definitely wouldn't phrase it that way. I wouldn't perceive a problem with such a statement since I find the reality of such an event unlikely. OTOH, I wouldn't deny that you perceived a very real problem in your world and thought that it bore sharing. IOW, I'd think you were a kook, but I'd think you were a well-meaning kook since you thought enough of your fellow man to warn them of the "danger".
Most wouldn't make the distinction. I think the definition would stop at kook. My perceiving a problem, real or not, doesn't make it a warning. I'm defining warning as something perceived as real by both the communicator and the communicatee (is there such a word?). I'm reminded of a debate between the NWF and some oil corporation. The NWF agent told the oil corporation that they had received plenty of warnings about harm to the environment and the oil agent responded that he received no such warning, just blathering from the NWF.
quote: With the way he worded his post very few people agree that there is a problem.
quote: Then they obviously weren't the intended audience.
He doesn't have the luxury to choose his audience. This is an open, public forum. Everyone registered is his audience whether he likes it or not.
quote: Without a doubt. I'll pray for your soul.
quote: No prayer necessary. The offense is also seldom intentional, but it happens anyway.
Sorry, years of pent up parochial school frustration coming to the fore.
quote: Unfortunately your terminology is the only way the rest of the world can try to understand what your ideas are. If I've focused on your terminology I apologize. It hasn't been intentional.
quote: No apology necessary. Communication is a process in my view. It's not finished until both parties get the correct and intended messages across AFAIC.
So let's get this straight. We both agree that communication is a work in progress. We agree that the original poster offended people. We agree that if his intention was to elicit change he failed, but if it was to vent he succeeded. We agree that people need to be careful with what they say to insure that their message gets across, but that responsibility also falls on those reading the message. We agree that it would be nice if communication didn't involve something as fallible as language, but we need to deal with things as they are, not as you or I would have them. What are we going to talk about now? How about hunting, abortion, religion, gambling, the relationship between church and state, politics (I'm rather sick of politics), or the legalization of various drugs?
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