mcristia
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Location: Cincinnati, OH USA
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Re: Re: Re: Rant
quote: Originally posted by Soul Raven
.... I can't speak for the people in my town, my co-workers, even members of my own family, but I know for me, I will do what I can to stop violence around me, to stop hate.
Are you with me?
SoulRaven,
Here are some examples of a personal, family, or school Pledge of Non-Violence, which reflect your comment above:
"In signing this pledge for non-violence, I recognize that I have responsibilities to myself and to all others. In my attempts to discover my own purpose, I will remember that every life has a purpose. I am not alone on this earth. It is through understanding others that we learn to know ourselves. I will never intentionally use words to make others feel isolated and I will do my best to stop the cruel words of others. I will hold out my hand as a friend, not use my mouth as a weapon. Nor will I ever intentionally do physical harm to another. I do not wish it for me, and I do not want it for anyone else. Violence with weapons kills the body. Violence with words kills the soul.
I will remember that asking for help is not a sign of weakness or a sign that I am not "cool". It takes more courage to say, "I need help," than to pretend I don't. I am responsible for me and for every decision I make. I can not blame anyone or anything for my choices. If I do, I must credit them with all of my successes, as well as my failures. If I want credit for my successes, then I must be accountable for my own failures. I understand that being accountable means accepting that there may be unpleasant consequences for the poor choices I may make. That doesn't mean I am a lesser person as long as I strive to be the best "me" I can be. If I am willing to judge others, then I must be prepared to be misjudged by them. It is self-respect and the respect I show others that will determine how others perceive me.
When I walk into the front door of my place of learning, whether it be school, church or synagogue, I will remember why I am there. I am not there to flaunt belongings. I am not there to demean teachers or other students. I will see others with my newly opened eyes. I will embrace others with my newly opened heart. I will look at a face I hadn't noticed before and offer a smile. After all, I am there to learn how and why we are connected.
Peace begins with me! Hopefully, it will be contagious!"
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I promise that:
I will do my best to refrain from participating in acts of violence in my home, in my school, and in my neighborhood.
I also promise to stand with other human beings who are treated unfairly.
By doing this I make known How Special I Am.
I will remember that I want to live in a peaceful world, and by taking this pledge I will be doing my part to achieve this goal.
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Making peace must start within ourselves. I commit myself to become, with God's help, a nonviolent and peaceable person.
To respect myself, to affirm others and to avoid un-caring criticism, hateful words, physical attacks and self-destructive behavior.
To share my feelings honestly, to look for safe ways to express my anger and to work at solving problems peacefully.
To listen carefully to one another, especially those who disagree with me, and to consider others' feelings and needs rather than insisting on having my own way.
To apologize and make amends when I have hurt another, to forgive others and to keep from holding grudges.
To treat the environment and all living things, including our pets, with respect and care.
To select entertainment and toys that support healthy values and to avoid entertainment that makes violence look exciting, funny or acceptable.
To challenge violence in all its forms whenever I encounter it, whether at home, at school, at work, at church or in the community and to stand with others who are treated unfairly.
This is my pledge. These are my goals. I will check myself on what I have pledged once a month for the next twelve months so that I can help myself and others become more peaceable people
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MANY BLESSINGS!
Peace and Every Good!
Michael W. Cristiani
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