PDAENVY
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Registered: Nov 1999
Location: Ann Arbor, Michigan USA
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Re: Can't help myself...
quote: Originally posted by K. Cannon
Question from a female perspective: Where do you (meaning you generally, not you, homer only) draw the line at what is "normal" and "natural"? Viewing porn daily? Viewing porn once a month? Never leaving your computer? What if your girlfriend/spouse doesn't like it? Too bad?
It seems to me that for people who choose to look at porn, "normal and natural" would mean at least a few things:
1. It doesn't get in the way of your responsibilities to your family, job, or god (if you have one).
2. It doesn't impede relationships with people.
3. It doesn't make you feel guilty, dirty, etc.
4. By buying it, you don't support an organization/person that is harming people. (i.e. only safe, willing, well-paid, adult models)
As a bonus, if you choose to look at porn, "normal and natural" could include:
a. being fun ( duh )
b. enhancing sexual relationships
c. allowing you to cope with sexual feelings during periods of time when you can't be or choose not to be in a sexual relationship
How's that for a start, K?
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